Leaving a husband can be a traumatic and devastating thing or it can be exciting, giving you freedom and the ability to become your own person and fly away to a better life. During my many years of working as a psychic and relationship expert I have come across all sorts of situations with women who are ending their marriage. How happy they are about it often depends on if it was her idea to end it or his. Most marriages end through the choice of the woman. I have lost count of the number of men who have told me that both he and his wife suddenly realised they had grown apart and agreed they should end things. What they really mean is that they were so estranged from each other they hardly spoke or spent time together and when she finally decided this could not go on he was aghast and wanted to try to persuade her to forget the idea. Not because he loves her but because he does not want to be on his own, or lose face in front of his family and friends or lose out financially. Yes there are a lot of financial and tangible things to take into account but when we concentrate on the spiritual and emotional ending something which is not working for you can be liberating and it can make you feel happier, more positive, calmer and more confident. Especially if you know people who are settling for a boring sham of a marriage.
Yes you may go through a lot of
problems and grief for a bit but surely when that is sorted and dealt with you are then free to enjoy all of the good things in life you probably would never have had the chance to do if you had stayed with him? And in the case of a man who has cheated, hurt you, abused you, been nasty to you, maybe violent, then you ought to be able to walk away with no regrets. Even a very religious and spiritual person has to accept defeat sometimes and think about their long term future rather than putting on a pretence and making do.
If you are going through doubts about maybe ending a relationship now think about how your life will be better later. See this as a process you need to go through to get to the big prize of happiness and freedom. If you are unsure as to whether it is the best thing to do then consult a reputable, accurate psychic - do not trust someone who just dabbles in readings - this is far too important to trust to that. Make a plan of action, be sure that you deserve happiness, do not feel guilty. And remember that if your partner had treated you better or been more suited to you then it would never have come to this. So your partner is as much to blame, if not more so, than you are. Sometimes it can become normal to be miserable and sad and you can feel that it is scary to escape from that and hope for more, but we all deserve to be happy.
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